For 25+ years, Femily has advised leaders, teams, and mission-driven firms on inclusion, change communication, and reputation strategy. Femily helps people and organizations build trusted reputations that attract the right clients, hires, funders, and media.
Femily’s work spans internal strategy – such as inclusive leadership, change management, and crisis communications – as well as external visibility, including brand positioning, thought leadership, and marketing. She has supported organizations across technology, government, nonprofits, academia, and consulting, particularly on high-stakes projects and in deeply politicized environments. For her consulting work in tech she is known as “Silicon Valley’s Gender/Inclusion Advisor.”
A sought-after keynote speaker (SXSW, Watermark Conference for Women), corporate trainer, and media contributor (NPR, U.S. News, Fast Company, The Washington Post), Femily brings deep expertise in both communication and reputation management. Through her sold-out programs (Future Thought Leader, How to Get Clients), free workshops, and YouTube channel, she equips women and LGBTQIA+ leaders to build visible, credible reputations that generate clients, respect, and career-defining opportunities.
Queer community events, cats, feminist fiction, social change, cooking, travel with my besties, all things
artsy, witchy and/or queer in San Francisco and Oakland.
“Life is so much shorter than we think. Make your art. Take care of each other. Risk everything for joy.” –
Astrologer and activist Chani Nicholas
Simmons University